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๐๐ฒ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ข๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐ฌ! Yes, he has been afraid of frogs since his college years. 
I interrogated him. (๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐บ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ต๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ถ๐ฑ ๐๐๐, ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ-๐๐ช๐ท๐ฆ๐ดโ ๐๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ถ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐๐ฏ๐ท๐ฆ๐ด๐ต๐ช๐จ๐ข๐ต๐ฐ๐ณ๐ด ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฉ๐ข) .
Kidding aside, I found out that my husbandโs fear of frogs started during their class laboratory experiments when he was in college. (yes, he is a nurse by profession..so with all the dissecting, the cadaver thing, and all in between.. I am just so proud of all nurses) 
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Like, who would not be? I donโt like frogs too. Just seeing them discourages me to go near.
But if in cases it will be inevitable, I can pass over one frog. Not an army of them!
But my husband, he cannot. Especially if that little amphibian hides and he knows it is there.
Just by imagining it gives him a fear intensity rate of 10. 
It really frightens him. Like he is a joker but if you joke around with a frog, he will go nuts with you.
Then I started convincing him that we process his phobia. Ahemm.
(๐๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ โ๐ธ๐ช๐ง๐ฆโ ๐ช๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ข๐ท๐ช๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฅ๐ข๐บ. ๐๐ข๐ฉ๐ข!).At first of course, my husband is hesitant.
and skeptical, but after what we did, he can even imagine holding the frog with his bare hands..eeww.
The next day, he saw an actual frog while pulling some stray grasses in our yard. (๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ๐ฏโ๐ด ๐ง๐ข๐ด๐ต ๐ข๐ค๐ต ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฑ๐ช๐ญ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ต๐ฆ๐ด๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ 
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And guess what?.He did not freak out! 
Like, he even wants to touch it, oh my!
But the test is not yet over, the frog did not hide.
Instead, it totally presents itself to my husband.
So, I might need to update you once he sees a frog hiding. 
But the main point here is, ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐บ๐ ๐ต๐๐๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐น๐ผ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ, ๐๐ต๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ณ๐ฎ๐บ๐ถ๐น๐โ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฎ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ด (fear) ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐.
He may overcome it when the worst case arises, but ๐ฌ๐๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฉ ๐จ๐ค ๐ก๐ค๐ฃ๐ ๐ฅ๐ง๐ค๐ก๐ค๐ฃ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐ค๐ฃ๐ฎ ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐๐ฎ?
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