Are You A Victim or A Victor?

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There are two kinds of people in this world.
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One is with the victorโ€™s mindset and the other with the victim’s mindset.
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A person with a ๐ฏ๐ข๐œ๐ญ๐จ๐ซโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ž๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐š๐œ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐š๐›๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐›๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ๐๐š๐ฒ.
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A victorโ€™s mindset focuses on learning from the past and applying the learning to present and future situations.
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A victorโ€™s mindset sees every situation as an opportunity to make things better; thus, she is never afraid to ask for somebodyโ€™s prowess so that she can deal well with her cases nor deny her struggles and ignore them.
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On the other hand, a person with a victimโ€™s mentality always sees things happening to her as a curse.
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Even if there are people who want to help her, she shuts her door. She subconsciously continues to savor the bitterness of her situation while constantly uttering and expressing how she struggles in her pain.
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A person with a ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บโ€™๐˜€ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜€๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€, ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—บ.
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They tend to feel that they are the victim of external forces, persons, or things against them.
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Which one are you?
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Dr. Steve Maraboli says it right, โ€œStop pointing fingers and placing blame on others. ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐๐ž๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฉ๐ญ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐›๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ข๐ญ.โ€
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If you have that victim mindset now, itโ€™s never too late to change your choice.
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You can still change your course.
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You can transform from being a victim into being a victor.
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Find someone now who can help you if you cannot do it on your own.

May you receive your blessings,

Tintin

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