There are two kinds of people in this world.
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One is with the victor’s mindset and the other with the victim’s mindset.
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A person with a 𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫’𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲.
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A victor’s mindset focuses on learning from the past and applying the learning to present and future situations.
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A victor’s mindset sees every situation as an opportunity to make things better; thus, she is never afraid to ask for somebody’s prowess so that she can deal well with her cases nor deny her struggles and ignore them.
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On the other hand, a person with a victim’s mentality always sees things happening to her as a curse.
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Even if there are people who want to help her, she shuts her door. She subconsciously continues to savor the bitterness of her situation while constantly uttering and expressing how she struggles in her pain.
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A person with a 𝘃𝗶𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗺’𝘀 𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗮𝗹𝘀𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝘂𝗼𝘂𝘀𝗹𝘆 𝗯𝗹𝗮𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀, 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝗲𝘅𝗰𝘂𝘀𝗲𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺.
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They tend to feel that they are the victim of external forces, persons, or things against them.
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Which one are you?
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Dr. Steve Maraboli says it right, “Stop pointing fingers and placing blame on others. 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐭.”
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If you have that victim mindset now, it’s never too late to change your choice.
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You can still change your course.
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You can transform from being a victim into being a victor.
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Find someone now who can help you if you cannot do it on your own.

May you receive your blessings,

Tintin

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